The neck is an extremely sensitive and erotic zone. It is also an often overlooked zone. Expanding your definition of erotic areas is highly rewarding. There are plenty of body parts outside of the “normal” that can bring an endless supply of pleasure when stimulated: the inner thigh, the ass, the stomach, and… the neck!
Neck fetishes are more common than you make think. There are kinks out there for everyone. If you think there is nothing sexier than a long, exposed neck, then you’ve come to the right place. Read on, especially if you’ve never explored this fetish before now.
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What exactly is a fetish?
Let’s talk about what sexual fetishes are before we talk about neck kissing, neck biting, neck nibbling and everything in between.
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The word “fetish” in traditional use describes an object that has perceived magical properties. Fetishes are objects that protects the person carrying them. Fetish objects are viewed as granting power and protection for those that carry them.
Then what is a “sexual fetish”? A sexual fetish can describe: a body part, object or situation that is granted erotic qualities, which aren’t linked purely to sex.
Anything can be the object of a sexual fetish. The list of fetishes is literally endless! The most common fetishes include the feet and other body features such as body size, piercings, tattoos, and hair.
A fetish is not a disorder. Fetishes are harmless and a normal part of human nature. Unless a fetish causes distress and interferes with your life, you should embrace your fetishes. A fetish is only harmful if it negatively impacts your life. For example, if you feel the need to sneak out and lie to others in order to fulfill it.
What is a Neck Fetish?
Neck fetishes are characterized by an intense desire surrounding necks. Either your own neck or the necks of others can be the focus of your desire. It’s usually aimed at another person, though there are cases of self-erotization as well.
The neck is filled with nerve endings making it a wonderful spot to kiss, lick, and nibble during sex.
How to tell if you have a Neck Fetish?
How can you tell if you simply enjoy your lover’s fingers and lips running all over your neck because it is sensitive or because you have a neck fetish? What defines a neck fetish?
If you find necks at the center of your erotic imagination, that may be a sign that you have a neck fetish. Do you find that you must be thinking of necks to maintain arousal or experience an orgasm? This can be a sign you have a fetish.
If you require neck stimulation in order to fully enjoy sex, that can be another sign that you have a neck fetish.
Fetishes are grey areas: you can enjoy something without strictly having a fetish. Whether you believe you have a fetish or not is ultimately up to you!
Why do people develop a neck fetish?
The neck is sensitive and a known erogenous zone.
It’s also a vulnerable area: during sex, it often gets exposed, and it conveys trust and intimacy. This might be the primal desire behind caressing, kissing and even biting your lover’s neck. Similarly, this sense of vulnerability may be one of the reasons you enjoy experiencing that attention yourself.
A light touch may be all you need, but some people who enjoy playing rough. Beware that the neck is an extremely sensitive area of the body. In addition to your windpipe there are countless blood vessels and nerve channels in the neck. Damaging any of these structures is extremely dangerous.
Choking is not recommended. It is very easy to accidentally hurt someone and often with much less pressure than you think. Do not choke anyone without taking a kink-positive course with professionals who can teach you how to do it safely. Check out your local BDSM scene to find workshops that can teach you how to safely play with your partners neck.
What is neck kissing? Neck licking? How to explore your Neck Fetish.
If you have a neck fetish, you already know how enticing kissing it -or getting it kissed!- can be.
A gentler or rougher touch could be best. Tender, loving kisses while your bodies intertwine and move in tandem can create a romantic and sensual experience for both of you. Hard passionate kisses can ramp things up. But why limit yourself to kisses? Necks can be caressed, nibbled, and stroked.
Sleeping in someone’s arms and nuzzling your face into their neck can offer great comfort and arousal to people with neck fetishes.
Jewelry and materials such as lace, silk, and leather can highlight the neck. This brings attention to the object of your desire.
Temperature play can also be fun. Dropping wax or using ice on the neck can also be a fun addition to your sex life. Switching from cold to hot creates a lovely contrast and can have your lover trembling with pleasure and begging for more in no time.
What else should I keep in mind?
When it comes to neck play, except for milder and gentler touches, it’s always a good idea to be mindful of risks.
There is a reason the neck is such a sensitive body part. It’s filled with veins and arteries, which are relatively close to the surface. It’s also a central part of your digestive and respiratory systems. The trachea is incredibly delicate, and any rough pressure can harm it, and lack of oxygen is life threatening.
Be incredibly cautious when engaging in any play situation. Whether on the receiving or giving end of neck stimulation, be mindful of the risks. Know the signs of potential trouble and what do in a case of an emergency.
This is also true when playing with temperature. Friction burns, cold burns or regular burns can occur when safety measures are not taken into account.
If you’re into biting, the risks are usually low. Avoid breaking skin and know your partner’s limits. A bit of pain can be fun and exciting, but hurting your lover isn’t. Our recommendation? Start slow: kiss their necks gently at first, then suck at it a bit harder. Brush your teeth over their long, sensual neck, exhaling softly in the process. Slowly ramp of the intensity from there.
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