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Can you cum multiple times? Here’s how to!

I’m sure you have wondered why all porn end in the guy cumming one big load whereas the women in the same video goes on back-to-back two or sometimes three times. Does it suddenly seem like the industry is biased towards female pleasure? Or is it…?

Biologically it is a tad bit difficult for a guy to cum just after a round of ejaculation. This is mainly attributed to the 3 step process of a man’s excitement. Unlike most of us who would believe that sex is a roller coaster ride, according to sexual health experts a man’s sexual progress chart during the act can be distinguished into 3 stages:

  1. The Excitement stage
    This is where the guy starts to get horny and “interested” in the act. The nipples harden, blood flow increases and he gets ready for the intercourse. In other words, this is the foreplay stage.
  2. The Plateau stage
    The man is enjoying the act. This is where most of the intercourse happens and the male is totally into the game. This stage ends in orgasm with an ejaculation.
  3. The Refractory stage
    This is the “aftermath”. Here the man becomes flaccid and would not be ready to get hard no matter how hard anyone tries!

This 3 stage progression has been validated by many popular health experts of the likes of Michelle Hope. Even in women, this progression is present. However, their refractory period is much shorter giving them the ability to go back-to-back multiple times without a break.


So, before we try to decode multiple orgasms. Do we know what is orgasm?

First of all, orgasm doesn’t equate with ejaculation. There are innumerable reports of men who can orgasm without the need to ejaculate.

An orgasm is an increase in sensitivity and sensations. It causes muscular contractions while the heart rate and blood pressure climb. This is a period of intense pleasure, and it is usually but not always accompanied by ejaculation.

Now, we can kinda conclude that it is not possible to go back-to-back. However, you can reduce your refractory period to as low as a few minutes to give yourself a feeling that it is a continuous episode.


Can you reduce refractory time and cum more than once?

Of course, you can!

If you’d like to go for multiple rounds with the least time interval, this section is for you:

  • Practice Kegels
    Like any other muscle in your body, your pelvic floor muscles need regular exercises to grow in strength. Using targetted workout routines you can narrow down to zones that target your pubes, groin, and even penile muscles.
    A preliminary Kegel exercise just requires you to flex your pelvic floor muscles. You can try out the following basic routine:
    • To try it out, imagine you were trying to stop urinating mid-stream.
    • Hold that contraction for five to 20 seconds, and repeat several times.
    • Do this daily for several weeks, and you may begin to notice a change in your refractory period, as well as the number of times you can cum in a row.

Kegel exercises also help you to increase your ejaculatory strength. So two birds in one stone.

  • Squeeze the head method
    This requires a bit of trial and error to perfected but once you know your game, this is THE method you’ll rely on.
    What you do is whenever you feel you’re about to bust, you grab the head of your penis and give it a hard squeeze. Hold it for 3 seconds after you’re done ejaculating to calm your nerves and then carry on once again. This helps you by momentarily halting the orgasm by using a moment of distraction.
  • Explore your prostates
    Don’t cringe every time you hear explorations into the butt world! Some butt play with fingers could be incredibly fun. However any kind of butt stuff needs a LOT of lube so you better bottle up before exploring those territories!
  • Get yourself a vibrating cock ring
    You’ll find it in any sex store outlet. A vibrating cock ring after the first ejaculation can help you immensely to keep the game going. Just put it around your penis, turn the switch on and enjoy the titillating sensation of vibration all over your penis as you pound away to glory.
  • Use Semenax
    One of the sure-shot ways to achieve double or triple orgasms is to increase your cum volume. More often than not it is there where the problem lies; a shortage of adequate volume to ejaculate. Semenax is a semen enhancer that not only takes care of your sexual health and semen volume but also ensures you stay at your peak at all hours.

How true is it that gay men cum more often than heterosexual men?

Even though there are no scientific arguments, the popular verdict says its correct!

To say that a man can go at it only once is a great understatement of his abilities. Much like women, men too can reach the apex more than once, although the dynamics are considerably different.

One of the easiest ways for a gay man to realize this multi-round euphoria is to have his anus penetrated. Anal orgasm (the touted “hands-free” orgasm) is much more stimulatory for men because the so-called male “g-spot” is buried here, near the prostate – an area galore with nerve endings. Stimulating the prostate is a direct route to male pleasure – this can be achieved by usage of a dildo or, if your gay, just use your partner’s junk!


The Bottom Line

The summary of this article would be to say that no, it isn’t possible to cum multiple times in one go however by reducing your refractory time with practice you can make get a somewhat similar experience.

Hence, focus on the tips I mentioned above and I’m sure you’ll notice a stark difference. Maybe you started off with a refractory period of an hour. After a month it goes down to 30mins, then 15mins, then 10mins, and finally closes at 3-5mins which certainly is an impressive feat!

Happy Cumming!